Changes
There was a big conversation about people changing and chaning people. It was commented that it sucks that you cannot be mad at some for being themself and not changing....Why would you want to change someone?? In my opinion, I have a deeper respect for someone who doesn't change who they are just because someone else told them they need to. If someone cannot accept us as we are no matter what, then what is the point? We can't go through life trying to change those we love and cherish. It is a person's personality and what not that makes them who they are and why we love that person, if we try to change them then all we are saying is "you're not good enough for me."
If a person changes, they need to be the one that decides that a change needs to occur, no one else. No one has the right to say that we need to change a part or all of our personality to have them cherish us more or respect them. How can you not respect someone who won't change who they are?? To me...not changing shows strength in who a person is. All I know is I am happy with the person I am, and I will not change for anyone else....and I don't expect people I care about to change who they are.....I like them just the way they are.
~~~I also realized that my dad's snoring sounds like Darth Santa......
If a person changes, they need to be the one that decides that a change needs to occur, no one else. No one has the right to say that we need to change a part or all of our personality to have them cherish us more or respect them. How can you not respect someone who won't change who they are?? To me...not changing shows strength in who a person is. All I know is I am happy with the person I am, and I will not change for anyone else....and I don't expect people I care about to change who they are.....I like them just the way they are.
~~~I also realized that my dad's snoring sounds like Darth Santa......
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