Honesty

It has been a little over three months since I started dating Todd. Things couldn't be better. We enjoy every minute of every time we have together and we understand the things each other goes through and listen as we talk about different things that may be happening in our lives. We're supportive of each other through everything.

The best thing is that we are so very open and honest with each other. We aren't afraid to say things to one another no matter what we may be thinking. Sometimes those things may be terrible thinking. We're honest because we know we'd understand and talk and be sensitive. Whatever it is we may be thinking we tell each other. I constantly tell him I'm happy and think he is perfect. He tells me of his thoughts no matter how terrible they may be right now in an oppressive state of mind.

I think that's the best thing about our relationship is that we're honest with each other and aren't afraid to talk about what we are feeling, thinking, or want. There are no secrets or lies between us and I don't see that happening any time soon.

Three Months

It has officially been three months since Todd and I started dating. Every day things just get better and better, I can't think of anyone better than he is. We have gone to many different places to learn together, this past weekend we went to Fort Necessity and saw an act of two men being slave traders. Haha I ended up being the slave that they were looking for. We talk all the time, share each other's interests and learn new things.

That's what a relationship is about give and take, learning, growing together. He took me to a pipe organ concert one weekend and I learned I enjoyed it. This past weekend he had a band concert and I highly enjoyed it. I never thought I would enjoy it our appreciate the sound a tuba makes, but after hearing Todd play, i highly enjoy it. Maybe it's because I am in love with someone who plays it, but I still enjoy the sound it makes.

I look forward to doing more things and learning more as we grow together. We work through the Purpose Driven Life from time to time, and even began playing chess when the weather isn't all that great. I am just so happy right now.

Cafe San Diego

While looking for a restaurant my boyfriend and I could go to for a romantic night on the town, I stumbled across the site for Cafe San Diego. It is a site where you can look up various restaurants of any cuisine, theme, style and in any area in California.

You put in what you are looking for an where then the site finds all the restaurants that meet your criteria, but if there are none, it gives you other establishments in the areas you are looking in. I did a search for Irish dishes, in Carlsbad, that is a diner like atmosphere, and has dinner only (I picked random things.) I got eight pages worth of restaurants from whereas if i tried to do a search like that on google or yahoo search I wouldn't be able to find the exact things I would want.

Cafe San Diego also offers coupons for the restaurants that have them. I was surprised at how many different places in California have coupons for their customers and the site gives you just about all of them. It's a great site for restaurant owners in California to register with to get customers to their business. The site even spotlights different restaurants. It's a great site, easy to read, easy to navigate. There are other restaurant search engines that are so complicated and confusing but Cafe San Diego is not one of them.

The only thing with the site is it's only for California based restaurants. I'm in Pittsburgh so it didn't help much, but gave me an idea that maybe a site like Cafe San Diego needs to exist for the Pennsylvania based restaurants.